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HELLO AND WELCOME TO COACHING WITH RENE BLOG #1. TODAY I WANT TO TALK A LITTLE BIT ABOUT HOW TO TELL IF YOU ARE DOING THINGS OUT OF DESPERATION OR IF YOU ARE TRULY DETERMINED TO CHANGE.

 LET'S START WITH DESPERATION: DESPERATE PERSON IS SOMEONE WHO IS SO WORRIED THAT THEY MUST MAKE A CHANGE , THAT THEY ARE WILLING TO TRY ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING TO BRING ABOUT THIS CHANGE, WITH NO REGARD FOR CONSEQUENCES FOR THE ACTIONS THEY ARE TAKING. THEY HAVE LOST ALL CONFIDENSE IN THEIR SELVES, AND SEE NO HOPE , THEREFORE MAKE THINGS WORSE INSTEAD OF BETTER, WITH SLIM TO NO CHANCE OF THE SUCCESS THEY ARE AFTER. THIS TYPE OF ACTION CAN COST YOU FAR MORE THEN IT GAINS. SOMETIMES OUT OF DESPERATION WE WILL DO ALL THE WRONG THINGS FOR THE RIGHT REASONS.

A DETERMINED PERSON ON THE OTHER HAND, KNOWS THAT A CHANGE IS NEEDED BUT TAKES THE TIME TO LEARN FROM THEIR PAST MISTAKES, AND CHOOSES TO TAKE ACTION NOT TO REPEAT SAID MISTAKES IN THE FUTURE. THEY MAKE CHANGES IN THEIR ROUTINES AND THOUGHT PATTERNS, AND SET GOALS .THEY HAVE THE CONFIDENSE AND A PLAN AND CAN NOW MOVE FORWARD . AND THEY ARE NOT AFRAID TO ASK FOR HELP WHEN NEEDED.

SO TODAY I ASK YOU, ARE YOU TAKING STEPS THE DESPERATE WAY OR ARE YOU TRULY DETERMINED TO MAKE CHANGES IN YOUR LIFE?

 

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